Do you find yourself wishing your partner would change to make your relationship happier? The dissatisfaction we feel with our partner often reflects deeper issues within ourselves. In my Hypnotherapy practice in Victoria, I guide clients to explore these feelings, leading to profound clarity.

Take a moment to identify aspects you wish were different with your partner. Are you saying things like, “How can I change my partner?” or “How can I make my spouse more affectionate?” Create a list and reflect on each point, questioning how it relates to you personally. You might discover judgments on your partner stem from self-criticism, impatience with them reveals a lack of inner patience, or feeling your partner isn’t ‘good enough’ mirrors your own insecurities.

By examining these connections, you can release unrealistic expectations and pressure, realizing they often originate from expectations you place on yourself. This self-awareness shines a light on areas where patience, self-acceptance, and self-love are needed.

This process allows your relationship to evolve into one of love and fulfillment, as you cultivate the qualities you once expected your partner to fulfill. Learning to take responsibility for your feelings in the relationship teaches you how to find happiness, joy, and fulfillment within yourself, creating a positive impact on your partnership.

Give this exercise a try and embark on a journey towards a more harmonious relationship!

Wishing you a wonderful day,

Arne Pedersen
Registered Certified Counselling Hypnotherapist in Victoria BC
Specializing in Relationships with the self, Anxiety, Self Confidence, and Self-Esteem


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